(((Hugs)))The hardest part for me has always been realizing deep within myself that Tony was/is here because he WANTS to be here. Not because he HAS to be here or because I do something for him that no one else can. it took me years to figure that out. And sometimes I still need reminding.The biggest surprise was that he stays for all of us... not just me.Your time will come Steph... for now, embrace being you. :)
Thank you Juli...as always you are so wise. I rewrote the ending a bit.
I love you just as you are, Steph!!
Thank you so much Fran!!!
I'm glad you have no regrets. Regrets are a waste of precious time.
I'm trying so hard to leave behind my fears and not nag Elvis Aaron Schwarz about leaving me, because then he'll get sick of it and might leave me. Aack! It's so hard, and I love you so dearly, Stephanola.Janieola
Oh Janieola, I know how hard that can be.Especially when there's conflict. It's hard to recognize if you're disagreeing on the issue at hand or if old stuff is interfering. I hope you can put your fears to rest, give yourself permission. Love you too sweet Janieola!
I second Stephen's assessment. You learn, you move on. Many hugs.
Dear Stephanie, I've been away from reading and commenting on blogs for six weeks. Now that I read the comments here I wonder what's been happening in your life. So would you please send me the URLs from you blog for those postings that you'd especially like me to read to catch up???? Put them in an e-mail or within the comment box on one of my blogs. I hope all is well, but I'm wondering after reading the comments. Peace.